Saturday, October 31, 2009

Lesbian and Gay Rights in Turkey











U.S.-based Human Rights Watch this week published a damning report on the treatment of gay people in Turkey. Turkey is one of the few Muslim countries in which homosexuality is legal. But the report said there was a crisis, citing an alarming level of public attacks and police harassment. This comes as the country's gay rights movement has become increasingly stronger, particularly in Turkey's largest city Istanbul, from where Dorian Jones sends us this report.
"We are in front of my boyfriend's apartment building, and we were coming here with a friend," recalled Turkey resident Emre Can. "Two men followed us. Apparently they saw us kissing so they were offended by that, somehow. They attacked us right where are we standing now. They threw a full beer bottle at us and yelling and screaming, all sorts of slurs, so now I do feel kind of edgy when I go outside."
Emre Can's experience is an all too frequent occurrence for gay people living in Istanbul. According to a report published by U.S.-based Human Rights Watch, Turkey's gay community lives in a climate of violence.
But as Bora Bengusin from the Istanbul gay rights group Lambda explains, it is not only attacks by the public that pose a threat.
"More than 12 police officers came to our office," he noted. "They did not find anything which is a criminal offense. But despite this fact, they took our documents about our financial systems and membership systems."
The police accuse Lambda of using its premises for prostitution, because transvestites and transsexuals were seen visiting the center.
These raids, however, are the least of Lambda's worries




Istanbul's governor has started proceedings to have the group closed down for violating public morality. Turkey's loosely worded laws on decency are frequently used by the authorities to crack down on gay groups.
Bora Bengusin blames the recent crackdown on the higher profile gays have obtained in Turkey.
"As much as we try to be more visible, pressures over us increase at the same level," he added. "If we live closed behind the doors nobody says anything to us. If you want some rights, if you want the state to recognize us, our sexual orientation and our gender identities then pressure increases at the same level. They don't want us to be visible in the society and in the streets in the public area."
Earlier this month in Ankara, the gay society held a meeting to tackle the problem of anti-gay attitudes Turkey. The head of Turkey's parliamentary human rights commission attended, despite strong condemnation from the religious media.
Though their attendance was key, Human Rights Watch's Scott Long, who spent three years compiling a report on the situation facing gays, says the government has to do more.
"There is a systematic pattern of violence by the police and in the communities in the family, gay men face and transgender people face violence at every hand," he said. "There is still vaguely written laws to arrest and harass anyone they chose. In Ankara the capital, there is a special police team called Balios which means hammer, and again and again transgender people told us that they've been beaten, that they've been raped by this police team and it's goal is to clean the center of the city of transgender people. And most conspicuous of all, the government does not intervene to stop it."
The Turkish security forces have strongly denied such charges. But it is not difficult to find accusations of police brutality from the country's transsexual and transvestite community.
In one of Istanbul's recently opened gay bars, transexual Gul, 50, sits drinking tea. She is a well known figure in the city's transsexual transvestite community. Gul, whose home was recently raided by the police, says life is becoming increasingly difficult for people like her.
"On the night of May 15 I heard a banging on my door when I opened the door a dozen armed police with batons and shields stormed in. They searched my house without a warrant and took me to the police station. I wasn't even allowed to speak to my lawyer. Gul said, ever since last year's new anti-terror law - which gives the police power to enter anyone home without a warrant - they have been using this against people like ourselves. The Islamic AK city authorities are trying to force us out of the center of the city."
A European Union report this month on Turkey's membership bid raised concerns over the slow pace of human rights reforms. Observers warn the outcome of the closure case against Lambda, along with Human Rights Watch's critical report will no doubt add to those concerns. -voanews.com

Gay Rights in Albania...How Things are Changing



Albania has been one of the poorest countries in Europe, and has been one of the last ones to 'catch up' with the times, including acceptance and tolerance of gays and lesbians in society. Many homosexuals, especially men, were afraid to be outted for fear of their lives and safety. But now, Albania is changing their outlook towards homosexual. A beautiful country, with gorgeous beaches in Vlora and Durres, a classic European city (Tirane) full of vibrant life, delicious meatshops and quaint cafes, it is the epitome of unpretentious European living. In close proximity to Montenegro and Italy, Albania is definitely not a place to overlook. Boasting a land of beautiful people and land, and the homeland of Mother Teresa, Albania should have a lot to be pride of...

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in Albania may face legal challenges not experienced by heterosexual residents. Both male and female same-gender sexual activity are legal in Albania, but households headed by same-gender couples are not eligible for the same legal protections available to opposite-gender couples.
There is no non-discrimination law protecting LGBT people. However, a comprehensive draft law on non-discrimination is pending that includes 'sexual orientation' and 'gender identity' among other categories of non-discrimination. Prime Minister Sali Berisha announced in July 2009 that the governing Democratic Coalition will support the law.
Albania, as a whole, is still considered to be rather conservative, especially in public reactions regarding lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) rights and visibility of LGBT people.-wikipedia

It is an unexpected move in a country that is still one of the most conservative in Europe and where homosexuality was illegal until 1995.
Mr Berisha acknowledged the proposed law might provoke debate but maintained that discrimination in modern Albania had to end.
The bill was drawn up by a group of non-governmental organisations.
It has been accepted by Mr Berisha's Democratic Party and will now come before parliament in the autumn.
In a predominantly Muslim country with almost no open homosexual community, the announcement by a conservative PM has taken people by surprise.
Goran Miletic, a Belgrade-based human rights lawyer, working partly on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues said it was an important step forward for the country.
"(It is) encouraging for the LGBT community in Albania, bearing in mind that they are not visible comparing to some other Balkan states like Serbia, like Macedonia or Croatia."
But he said he did not think the law would be passed easily in the face of immediate opposition from religious communities
The reaction by Islamic and Catholic leaders has been vehement.
Under the isolationist rule of Enver Hoxha, Albania was officially an atheist state.
But since the fall of Communism almost two decades ago, religion has once again grown and its leaders' voices are influential.
Albania, though, has set its sights firmly on the goal of European Union membership, and it seems this proposed law is aimed at showing Brussels a progressive new image.
If it is passed in the autumn, it could move the country one step further on its European path. --BBC News

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Who's Gay in the NBA?







Both ESPN http://sports.espn.go.com/nba/news/story?id=2757105 and NBC Sports report that Ameachi is the first gay NBA player to come out, and he says, there's more and he's certain he's played against gay players! Go Amaechi, go!






Of course, we all remember Magic Johnson and Detroit Piston player Isaiah Thomas who used to kiss before games! And of course, Mark Aguirre who joined in the kissing game when he was traded from the Mavericks to the Pistons. Then we got Dennis Rodman who has 'same sex attractions'



Even when athletes do engage in homosexual behavior, it doesn't mean they're homosexual. Homosexuality and homoeroticism have played a role in sports for decades, but seldom is it labeled gay. Phil Petrie, a college athlete at Tennessee State in the 1950's, recalls that "it was common for athletes to, in effect, sell themselves... to have sex for men." Petrie, now married with children, remembers football players who talked about "packing shit" or receiving oral sex, but the athletes did not consider their actions to be homosexual. Instead, it was a business transaction between cash-strapped athletes and men who wanted to have them. "If you have a group of people who are considered desirable, and you live in a capitalistic society, can you get them with money?" Petrie asked. "And the answer is you can get some." Still, "many of the athletes do not see someone paying them to have oral sex with them . . .as a homosexual act," Petrie said. basketball.ballparks.com






Even though Mets player Mike Piazza is married, many still speculate the player is gay. He announced in 2005, "I'm not gay. The truth is I'm heterosexual and date women."



The top 10 Most Speculated Gay Men in the NBA (No evidence found) are:



1.Vin Baker, who sings in a church choir. (Cute.)



2.Glenn Robinson, Milwaukee



3. Penny Hardaway (not a woman's touch in his dope place on an episode of "Cribs".



4. Tim Hardaway



5. Vince Carter.



6.Isaiah Thomas



7. Magic Johnson



8.Dale Davis (it's allllll a tough act!)



9.Iverson



10.Mark Aquirre






Let's hope more NBA players come out of the locker room closet! There's probaby DOZENS!

Toronto Raptors Rock!

With greater than 40% win records, my Raptors rock! We are the top free throw shooting team in the league! Boo-yah! http://basketball.ballparks.com/NBA/TorontoRaptors/newinterior.jpg


Calderon is a great point guard. Bosh is awesome. The team will sizzle this year 09/10!!

Raptors, We Heart You




I am taking my fiancee to a Toronto Raptors game at the Air Canada Centre (ACC) next month for her birthday. It's pretty exciting to go to the huge arena and cheer and shout with all the other die-hard fans who paid a small fortune to be there. Since they traded a few players on each time (Heat, Raptors....I did some research;) it should be very interesting to see who will win that night's game...Let's Go Raptors! Let's Go! Woot woot.



We're happy and excited to show our enthusiasm for our national basketball team by wearing Raptors jerseys and holding up signs until our hands get tired. The prospect of getting an autograph in our Lower Bowl great seats is also a possibility that keeps us grinning excitedly.



Miami Heat has good players (I don't know much about sports but these guys seem to be much talked about!!) like Dwayne Wade. He helped them beat the Grizzlies 99-93 this month.



My favourite part of the whole experience isn't really the game....(other than the score)..it's the cute dancing mascot and the music!! That just puts the icing on the cake for me. And I know my fiancee will really appreciate it and be as excited and go-hung as I am.






But yeah who will win this game? Shawn Marion and Michael Beasley from the Heat? I mean, sure they might have game (I love the sports jargon!! hehe) but the Toronto Raptors are the shit!! The teams I love are the NY Knicks and the LA Lakers, but foremost is love for my Raptors.



With Calderon, Bosh and Bargnani I'm hoping they'll kick the Heat back to Miami! I hope they give it their all and Weems, Johnson and Wright help out! HEAT VS RAPTORS November 16th 2008 and Raptors smoked them at 107-96 score. Enough said.



Tuesday, October 27, 2009

New York LGBT Youth Org receives $300,000 Gift From Actress

All over the world, homosexuals and trans teens and young adults know how it feels to get kicked out of your home, ostracized, bullied and hated because of your sexual orientation. They become homeless and shut out, social outcasts because their families cannot accept this. Well, thanks to Bea Arthur, the Ali Forney Centre (New York's largest organization dedicated to homeless LGBT youth) announced she would purchase a building to house 12 youth and name it in her honor.

We work with hundreds of young people who are rejected by their families because of who they are. We are overwhelmed with gratitude that Bea saw that LGBT youth deserve as much love and support as any other young person, and that she placed so much value in the work we do to protect them, and to help them rebuild their lives.” says Executive Director Carl Siciliano.
The Ali Forney Center offers emergency shelter and transitional housing in seven residential sites in New York City, and operates two drop-in centers offering food, clothing, medical and mental health treatment, HIV testing, treatment and prevention services, and vocational and educational assistance. It provides services to over 1000 young people each year. -reported by 365 Gay Newswire.

Rufus Wainwright at an Ali Forney benefit.

Phil. Facility Torments Trans Teen

Today Lambda Legal will file a complaint with the Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations (PCHR) against the City of Philadelphia and the Youth Study Center (YSC) among others on behalf of a 17-year-old transgender girl who was physically attacked by other residents and verbally abused by staff every day for almost a year and a half.
“Youth Study Center violated Philadelphia’s Fair Practices Ordinance when their staff discriminated against our client for being transgender,” said Flor Bermudez, Youth in Out-of-Home Care attorney for Lambda Legal. “This city facility was supposed to protect her but instead Youth Study Center staff failed to respect her gender identity, verbally abused her, let residents physically attack her and forced her to live in fear.”
The girl, who has asked to be unnamed for safety reasons, has been in the foster care system since she was 11.
In February 2008, a Family Court Judge ordered Department of Human Services to provide her with all appropriate medical treatment for Gender Identity Disorder (GID), including hormone therapy and mandated that her female gender identity be respected.
However, YSC staff and administrators failed to treat her in accordance with her female gender identity. They refused to refer to her by her preferred female name and to use female pronouns. YSC staff also refused her access to clothing and grooming options that matched her gender identity and reprimanded her for acting in a feminine manner.
When she asked to be referred to by her preferred female name, YSC staff told her: “You ain’t no fucking female, you are a dude. . . Till you get your dick cut off, I’m not going to call you [by your preferred female name.]”
In addition, YSC staff subjected Lambda Legal’s client to ridicule and cruel and degrading treatment and allowed abuse by residents on a daily basis. She endured verbal harassment, including slurs such as: “You’re a faggot,” “Wanna-be-girl,” “You are not a girl,” and “You will never be a girl.” On several occasions, the verbal harassment escalated to physical attacks.
The complaint filed by Lambda Legal to the PCHR claims that the YSC, operated by DHS, violated the Philadelphia Fair Practices Ordinance because she was harassed and discriminated against on the basis of her actual and/or perceived gender identity, sexual orientation, sex, and disability.
Even though I asked the administration and staff at the Youth Study Center on multiple occasions to stop the harassment, to call me by the right name, to let me wear clothes that match who I am, and to allow me to sleep in a unit where I would feel safe, I continued to be degraded by staff and residents,” said the 17-year-old girl.
“Nobody, including sexual minorities, should have to experience the physical and emotional abuse that I encountered there.”

We have love for you out here in Toronto, honey! (hug)

Maine Governor Wants Locals to Vote YES for Gay Marriage


Maine Gov. John Baldacci is urging residents to vote against repealing the state’s same-sex marriage law while acknowledging his past opposition to gay marriage. Baldacci said Tuesday that he once preferred civil unions to gay marriage but came to believe a civil union is not equal to civil marriage. He signed the gay marriage bill into law last May.
In one week, Maine voters will cast ballots to decide whether to repeal the state’s gay marriage law, which was passed by the Legislature earlier this year.
Baldacci says same-sex marriage is an emotional issue and says good, honest people are on both sides of the debate.
The governor was joined at the news conference by members of the Vote No campaign.

Uruguay Lawmakers OK Gay/Lesbian Adoption



Lawmakers in Uruguay have approved a bill allowing gay and lesbian couples to adopt. Despite opposition from Uruguay’s Roman Catholic Church and some of the political opposition, the 99-seat Chamber or Representatives on Thursday passed the bill 40-13, with the remaining members absent.
It goes next to the Senate, which approved an earlier version of the bill in July but must now vote again on modifications.
If it becomes law, Uruguay would be the first country in Latin American to allow adoption by gay and lesbian couples.
The law supported by socialist President Tabare Vazquez’s Broad Front coalition, which has already legalized gay civil unions and ended a ban on homosexuals in the armed forces.

NYC to recognize lesbian parents


Legally married lesbian couples will now have both names on the birth certificates of their children.
The city Board of Health voted Tuesday to make the change. Last May Gov. Paterson issued an executive order recognizing the marriages of New York gay and lesbian couples who had gone outside the state to wed. The order directed state agencies to revise their policies.
The issuing of birth certificates is up to individual counties. It is believed the decision in New York City is the first of its kind in the state.
The Board of Health decision, however, does not affect male couples where one partner has adopted a child or where one partner already is a parent. In those cases, the other partner must go through the adoptive process.
Same-sex marriage is illegal in New York State.
In 2006, the New York Court of Appeals, the state’s highest court, ruled that same-sex couples do not have a constitutional right to marry. It said that the issue, however, could be taken up by the legislature.
Legislation that would allow same-sex couples to marry in New York State passed the Assembly in 2007 but the then-GOP controlled Senate refused to take up the bill.
The measure is expected to be reintroduced in the Assembly this year.
Gov. David Paterson (D) has said if a marriage equality bill came to his desk he would sign it.
The bill, however, is unlikely to be advanced in the Senate. State Senate Majority Leader Malcolm A. Smith (D) has said he does not have the votes.

I Have Gay Parents--From Bella

"M y mom and her best friend came out when I was about 11. And I'm honestly proud they are together! They started off married to men, but my mom divorced when I was about 7 and her girlfriend divorced her husband about 3 years later and a while after that they decided they were in love and wanted to live as a family, which was fine with us kids because we practically had always been a family anyways.
A lot of people, including people in my own family look down on it, think its disgusting and has somehow "damaged" the morals of us kids but nothing could be further from the truth. All I remember of my mom & dads marriage is fighting and fear, unhappiness and tension. Here there is nothing but love and understanding and happiness and laughter every day. And when the moms ARE fighting, they never do it infront of us or drag us into it. And though all 4 of us kids are different as night and day, we were all raised by them to be tolerant and loving and accept people for who they are. It may not be the norm and people can think what they want but as long as my mother is happy, I am happy and wouldn't have it any other way. :)" -Bella

David and Ralph's Adoption Story

As a lesbian and soon-to-be lesbian parent, hearing successful lesbian and gay adoption stories makes me proud and joyous, because they are fulfilling a position they feel deep inside. The need to nurture and to share their lives and heart with a child, to help them grow and learn and have the privileges that every child should have. Every story should be heard..



We always wanted to have kids," says David. When he and his partner, Ralph, began the adoption process, they didn't expect it to be easy. "We were expecting roadblocks," David remembers. Those expectations proved realistic.
Like many other families starting the adoption process, David and Ralph encountered plenty of red tape. "There's no fast track," says David. "For four years we were struggling with the systems in Los Angeles County and in Santa Barbara County. We moved a lot, and that slowed us down. They made us retake some training. We were almost to the point of giving up.

Then we found Kinship Center, a non-profit agency in Santa Ana, and they were very helpful in cutting through all the red tape." Through the agency, David and Ralph joined a monthly support group. "We met a lot of people we can relate to." Many of the families wanted sibling groups. David and Ralph did, too. "We were looking for one or two, not necessarily three," says David.
On a day off from work, he made a routine call to his social worker and asked if she'd heard of any kids. "Well," she replied, "There's this one group. I wasn't going to tell you about them because there are three." David found out that his partner's sister, Vickie, had seen the same three children on television on the Wednesday's Child feature of the Fox 11 news, but hadn't mentioned them for the same reason.


Summer, age 9, Brittany, 7, and Martin, 5, had been in the system for over four years. They had not always been together. Martin had been in six different homes. David and Ralph soon got a copy of the children's videotape, and also looked for them on the Wednesday's Child website. David describes the immediate connection he felt. "When you see the kids, you know they're your kids."
The website helped David and Ralph spread the word. "We sent copies of the pages to families and friends, and also people at work. We gave them the link."
The children first met their new parents in February, 2002. In April, they moved in. The Federal Reserve Bank of San Francisco, where David is employed in the Los Angeles Branch, provided paid adoption leave to help the transition. The adoption was finalized in March, a year later. David and Ralph are now Daddy Dave and Daddy Kaco. (Kaco is Ralph's nickname.) "Just normal kid things is what we're dealing with now," says David.


Ralph, who is a stay-at-home parent, elaborates. "They're really into family life. Summer does gymnastics and athletics, Martin likes karate, and Brittany likes soccer. We've got a little garden growing. It feels as if the kids have always been here, as if our lives have always been about the kids. Now when they talk about their past, it's about their past with us. It doesn't matter if they're adopted or biological-- it's a family!"
"School work is number one. Fun is the second thing," David says, about getting through a typical week. "We picked up a system of rules and consequences from the foster family. The kids work well with that. We're very thankful for the foster family," he acknowledges. "The children visit them and consider them their grandparents."
The children have learned to handle other children's occasional curiosity. "Yes, I have two Dads," Summer, the oldest, told a classmate. "If you have a problem with that, it's your problem. If you bring it up again, I'll take it to the teacher."
On another occasion, thinking forward to her high school years, Summer told Ralph, "Daddy, you can't go to the prom with me." The reason? "Because you dance funny."
Adopting Summer, Brittany and Martin created a multiracial family. "Where we live, in Long Beach, California, is a very, very diverse community," says David. The kids see all kinds of different family units. We're part of the community. We're not sticking out." He continues, "We really wanted a mix of kids. It struck me that diversity is part of our community, and it would make us stronger to be a diverse family. We know we're a strong unit. We've got to be."

*Story written by Becky Birtha

Ralph, Dave and kids: Summer, Brittany and Martin

Rio de Janiero's Gay Pride October 30th-November 02nd



Come to the most beautiful and gayest city in the Americas to take part on this fantastic Pride Parade by Copacabana beach. (Hey why not, Pride and beaches should always go together ;)



Since the early years of the gay and lesbian movement in Brazil in the late 1970s and early 1980s, activists have engaged with political parties in their struggle for the rights of sexual minorities.
In 1830, Brazil decriminlized homosexuality!

The Chicago Lesbian and Gay Film Festival Presents 28th Reeling Film Festival




Presented by Showtime and Comcast, running November 5 - 15, Reeling will showcase over 150 innovative gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender films from countries as diverse as the Philippines, Sweden, Mexico, and Puerto Rico. Reeling continues to demonstrate the expanding breadth of gay-themed work being produced today by showcasing films representing multi-cultural perspectives and in genres ranging from musical comedy to horror to serious drama to compelling documentaries to introspective experimental, and more. (http://www.reelingfilmfestival.org/rg/)

Monday, October 26, 2009

10 WAYS TO SHOW YOUR BOO-BOO YOU LOVE 'EM










1. Throw them a surprise birthday party (one of the cute ones with a cake and candles where everyone jumps out and yells "SURPRISE!!!" and then sings a cheery rendition of "Happy Birthday" with balloons and streamers and those party blower things that make an annoying noise. PS. Don't forget to turn on the lights when he/she arrives!






To make it EXTRA special, try baking the cake yourself!









2.Have morning sex. If they're not in the mood, they can't resist breakfast in bed or a early massage.



3. Buy them socks, and give them a kiss. Everyone always runs out of socks. They'll appreciate the gesture.



4. Make sure after you charge your Blackberry/iPhone that your beaus phone/iPod/Nintendo DS is charged too (they'll love you as they're speeding to work).



5. Scrub the tub clean and have a bath for deux...don't forget the candles and champagne!


















6.If they speak an ethnic tongue, surprise them with a few foreign words (doesn't even have to be romantic!) If not, then try cooking a traditional meal from their homeland like schnitzel or cous-cous tangine.


7. Try not to let out gas in their company for a week. Yes, one week. Ah, the love will come floating back in.


8. Offer to take the dog out for a pee/poo for one week. If you own a cat, offer to pick up the cat litter (do this before they pick it up. Ahem.) If there is no pets in the house, name a birdie outside the pet name of your lover (Awww, I'll name this bird Spikey-Mikey!) (Oh, this hummingbird should be June Bug!)


9. Make a painting of your lover's face or entire being. This will illicit the need for kisses.











10. Buy a single rose. Cheesy, but timelessly ROMANTIQUE.

Countries That Allow Gay Marriage (Here's to You!)
















I can only imagine the joy and triumph each same sex couple experiences as they tie the knot in matrimony. I know some day, every gay and lesbian couple will be able to marry the ones they love. Here's to the progressive countries who already see that love is the right of every one. Cheers to :
Netherlands
Canada (yeaah! Go Canada)
Belgium
Spain
South Africa
Massachusetts and Utah (USA)
*Israel ruled to recognize international same sex marriages but does not perform them.
Same sex couples are recognized as civil unions in these countries: Andorra, Australia (except Commonwealth law), Colombia, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Hungary (unregisterd co-habitation since 1996; registered partnership from 2009), Iceland, Israel, Luxembourg, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Slovenia, South Africa, Sweden, Switzerland, the United Kingdom and Uruguay. They are also available in some parts of Argentina, Brazil (Rio Grande do Sul), Mexico, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maine, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon, Vermont, Washington state, and the District of Columbia (Washington, D.C.).

Paris--La City of (Rainbow) Lights










La ville d'amour ... pour les homosexuels ....Paris.




Parisian gays are really lucky..One can see gay couples in the streets, lovingly holding each other with no problems. Must be all the amour in the air, oui? With over 375 gay and lesbian venues, there is too much to see and do in one's lifetime! Most of them are concentrated in the Les Marais district of Paris, where you can see same sex couples hand-in hand shopping in the Sainte Croix de la Bretonnerie, or visiting the splendid Places des Vosges. If you're new, start by visiting Open Cafe at the corner of rue Des Archives and rue Saint Croix de la Bretonnier (for the boys). Women, stick to rue Du Roi de Secile and rue Des Ecouffes if you want to be in the lesbian bar zone with the only female-dedicated sex shop in town!




Let's not mention Paris is the first world capital to elect an openly gay mayor in 2001 (who was re-elected in 2008! woo-hoo! ). Le Marais is the upscale and historic place for transgendered and bisexuals too, even Mozart and Victor Hugo stayed here in the 20th Centuries (making sweet music, Mozart?)



700,000 people attend Paris' Gay Pride Parades annually, and you can expect to stay out at gay nightclubs until about 5:30 am. Sure, Netherlands has gay marriages approved....but the food is delicious in Paris! (Frog legs, anyone?)

If I Wasn't Living in Toronto...






If I wasn't live in Toronto...(I mean sure it's great...Eaton Centre, Starbucks left right and centre, and Nathan Phillip Square) I would be in what I consider the gay capital of the world--ZURICH, SWITZERLAND!!!! And Here's why!



Nobody does fierce Gay Pride festivals like the Swiss! Dayum! They are a leader in solid gay fierceness and they do NOT blend in!














*Euro Pride 2009 took place this year in Zurich...H-E-L-L-O!


*The famed Black and White parties, and the Follies au Lac (a gay party at Lake Zurich)


*their gay and lesbian film festival


*Places where politicians and crossdressers all pass through --the El Greco cafe, Kronenhalle, Nooba, the famed Rathaus-Cafe, Restaurant du-Theatre, Europe's oldest gay bar Restaurant-Bar-Barfusser (http://www.barfuesser.ch/), Sento.


*the GAY club party scene...Boyahkasha, Club AAAH! (real name, I swear), Club T&M (the oldest gay club in Switzerland), Rage and Sector C, Tanzleila's lesbian women-only bar and We Are Famous http://www.wearefamous.ch/. (And G-Lounge, a gay bar).












-Swiss peeps speak German, English and French, and Dutch so pick up a dictionary and herankommen!

One great thing for us dog-loving gays and lesbians...Zurich is DOG FRIENDLY. Yes, dogs go everywhere from trains and trams to restaurants and bars and shops without anybody raising an eyebrow.

Stroll through narrow and winding Old Town alleys, over cobblestone streets and by medieval residential towers, past houses surrounded by legends, picturesque bay windows, ruins of Roman baths and much more. (From Marie Claire)

The streets are filled with cross dressers, elder dames in hats and diamond chokers walking their Chihuahuas, hardcore lesbians with sexy dykey short haircuts and eyebrow piercings and tons and tons of gorgeous homosexuals flocking around from the Rhine Falls to the Bahnhofstrasse. I know, I want to book my flight too! ;)

Cafe Odeon, gay bar in Zurich (below)

World Pride 2012


World Pride 2012 will be in London, England on July 4th 2012. http://www.pridelondon.org/tvpl2007.php

And of course, Pride 2014 will be held in my hometown and city of birth TORONTO. Which is only natural :D
I am happy for all the Londoners who can express their excitement and joy at World Pride in England, and I'm sure it will be a joyous event! Congrats!


Friday, October 23, 2009

Irina and Irina Get Married in Toronto




I took these photographs today at Irina and Irina's wedding. It was a beautiful ceremony, and their wedding vows were touching. They were so nervous and exciting, and looked stunning in their custom suits. I'm sure they have a lot to go through fighting Russian's court system to help lift the ban on same sex marriages in Russia--but all the luck to them. Somebody has to lead the fight and I'm glad that they are going through with this full heartedly. I wish them the best of luck, a happy fulfilling life and much success!
(Photos belong to MB)

Two women from Russia — denied the opportunity to wed in their homeland — will be married in Toronto on Friday.
Irina Fedotova-Fet and Irina Shipitko twice asked a Russian court to allow them to marry at a registry office in Moscow, but both times the court dismissed their request on the grounds that Russian law only permits marriages between men and women.
They hope their Canadian marriage certificate will help the movement for same-sex marriage in Russia.
But first, the couple just want to enjoy their day.
Fedotova-Fet said she's thrilled her wedding day has finally arrived.
"We got acquainted five years ago," she said speaking through an interpreter, "and all this time we were together."
The couple, she said, have been "waiting for this day."
After being denied the opportunity to marry in Russia they struck on the idea of having their marriage in Canada, where same-sex marriages have been taking place since 2001.
Russian law does recognize international marriages but doesn't make any mention of same-sex unions.
Lawyer Nicolai Alexeyev hopes the couple's Canadian marriage certificate will carry some weight in the couple's appeal for recognition to Russia's Supreme Court and the European Court of Human Rights.
"We are trying to help them, but we are also trying to help many, many couples who do not believe it is possible. It is possible, and they're showing that it is possible," said Alexeyev.
Fedotova-Fet and Shipitko will stay in Canada for six days before returning home. -Source CBC News


I just have to say my fiancee and I are excited and proud for the Irina's, and very honoured to be attending their Toronto wedding. Hopefully they can go back to Russia and model how same sex married women are (completely normal). The two women are completely in love, very beautiful and very happy and this is a very special day for them both. Congratulations!!!!!!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Equality For Women!



A lot of women see themselves on television and in music videos as pretty, dumb bombshells or pitiful victims that need saving by princes. They don't know there are many woman scholars, many woman lumberjacks (my own room mate was one ;), and many woman succeeding in mathematics, sciences, chemistry, engineering....all the kind of "not-paint-your-nails-pink" kind of stuff. If you've been one of those girls who's been curious about the numbers....well, the numbers are out there!




Successful Female Athletes


Dorothy Kamenshek -baseball


While American men were fighting in World War II, Dottie Kamenshek was tearing up the fields for the All-American Girls Baseball League. A lefthanded first baseman, Kamenshek won back-to-back batting titles in 1946 and '47 and was selected to seven All-Star teams (1943, 1946-51). An outstanding bunter and contact hitter, she struck out just 81 times in 3,737 career at-bats.




Mia Hamm - soccer


. In May, Hamm scored her 108th career goal, making her the world's alltime leading scorer, an accomplishment that outshines her many others (four NCAA titles at North Carolina, an Olympic gold medal, two World Cup championships, five U.S. Female Player of the Year awards).




Ann Trason -Ultra marathon runner
It's unthinkable that a 26.2-mile marathon might not be enough of a challenge for some athletes. But Ann Trason has become legendary for running road races that range from 50 to 100 miles in distance. Trason first broke out at the 1989 Western States 100, one of the world's biggest ultramarathons. Though it took her three tries to finish, her time of 18 hours, 47 minutes and 46 seconds blew away her nearest competitor by more than an hour and a half.




Numbers in Schools/Work


In 2008, 1,016 women were accepted as first year students into Harvard University. That's three more than the men accepted. :)


In 2008, Yale accepted 942 women as first year students (and 1010 men)


28.4 per cent of all doctors in the US are female.


$32,649. The 2008 medium annual of women over age 16


$61,081. The 2008 medium annual of women who worked in mathematical and computer jobs.


32%. The percentage of women in America who obtained a bachelor's degree or higher aged 25-29 in 2006.


26.8 million women with a bachelor's degree or higher, aged 25 and older, in 2006.


894,000 - the projected number of bachelor degree's to be given out to women in 2007-2008. While 380,800 is the projected number who will go on to earn master's degrees in the USA.


More than $939 billionRevenue for women-owned businesses in 2002. There were 116,985 women-owned firms with receipts of $1 million or more.
Nearly 6.5 millionThe number of women-owned businesses in 2002. Women owned 28 percent of all nonfarm businesses.
More than 7.1 millionNumber of people employed by women-owned businesses. There were 7,231 women-owned firms with 100 or more employees, generating $274 billion in gross receipts.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Ode to Canines





















I love dogs. My favourite dog is the Pug, and I have one who is one years old who is sweet, caring, obediant and very, very cute. Anyway, this is for all the dog lovers who treat their dogs like a best friend and family member =)













Doggone fact: It only costs an average of $5,000 to raise a dog until 10 years old.
Doggone fact: There are almost 60 million dogs in the USA.
Doggone fact: Irish wolfhounds have a short lifespan and only live to around 7-8 years.
Doggone fact: Dogs can be trained to detect an upcoming epileptic seizure.
Doggone fact: Border Collies are the most
intelligent breed of dog.






Doggone fact: Approximately 87% of dog owners say that when they watch T.V. their dog curls up beside them or at their feet.
Doggone fact: The largest dog in the world is the Irish Wolfhound.







Doggone fact: The dumbest dog in the world is the Afghan Hounds.







Doggone fact: An average city dog lives approximately three years longer than an average country dog.