Sunday, October 4, 2009

Open about Lesbian and Gay SEX







LB (my fiance says) "Lesbian sex is beautiful, erotic and sensual. Sex makes me feel fulfilled, and it's an integral part of my relationship."






Sex should be about pleasure foremost, not making babies.






Many mythologies and religious narratives have included stories of romantic affection or sexuality between figures of the same sex, or feature divine actions that result in changes in gender. These myths have been interpreted as forms of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) expression, and modern conceptions of sexuality and gender have been applied to them.



Many lesbians enjoy penetration -- whether from fingers, hands or sex toys. Penetration can be pleasurable no matter what your sexual orientation and desiring something inside you does not make you straight or bisexual. It certainly doesn’t mean you will cheat on her.
Many women who have no interest in men love to have strap-on sex with their female partner. So go get a dildo and have fun!



Lesbian Hand Sex



Our hands are our most versatile sexual tools. Learn how to use your hands give your lesbian lover a great hand job.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: Fifteen minutes to two hours
Here's How:
Begin your love making session by getting her aroused. Talk seductively in her ear, tease her, touch her, kiss her, blow on her neck, caresses her under her shirt, slowly undress her.
When you sense her arousal, slowly move your hands down toward her thighs. Push her legs apart and tease her by lightly running your hand over her vulva. Cup her vulva with your hand.
Explore her whole body with your hands, touching her thighs, butt, belly and breasts. Unless you're pressed for time, draw it out, keep the excitement mounting.
Use water-based or silicone lubricant. Even is she gets plenty wet herself, adding lube will make the experience extra slippery and delicious. Add the lube to your hand and warm it up a bit before you touch her.
Spread her outer labia and take a good look around. Tell her how beautiful she looks.
Stimulate her outer and inner labia, the perineum and the opening of her vagina before stimulating the clitoris.
Pay attention to her responses. Everyone is different. Some women like direct stimulation on their clitoris, others prefer indirect pressure. Some women prefer one side touched more than the other. The key to a good hand job is to notice what she likes, either by her verbal or nonverbal response, and keep at it. Most women need sustained stimulation to reach orgasm.
The more aroused she gets, the more direct stimulation her clitoris can take. As she becomes more and more aroused, stroke her faster and faster, being sure to pay attention to how her body responds.
Many women enjoy vaginal or anal penetration in addition to clitoral stimulation. Ask her what she likes.
Invite her to show you. Have her put your hand where she wants it and to show you how much stimulation and pressure to use.
Tips:
Ask her to show you how she does it. You can learn a lot by observing your partner masturbate. Notice where she rubs, how fast and how hard.
Remember to NEVER insert your hand or any sex toy into her vagina if has had contact with her anus.
Keep it safe. Follow these guidelines for safer lesbian sex.
Add a vibrator. If she's having trouble reaching orgasm by your hand alone, the intense stimulation of a vibrator may be a good addition to stroking of your hand.






GAY SEX



My friend, Julian, says, "Gay sex is tender, fun and very masculine."



Gay sex is a joyous experience, one that has been the most talked about in history, and is as diverse and unique as any other type of sex. Anal, barebacking, oral...who even needs a woman when you have a beautiful man to make love to?






Kiss. Nothing gets you in the mood like a good makeout session.
Step 2
Touch your lover. Run your hands over his body. Caress him. Kiss him everywhere.
Step 3
Offer fellatio. Since you are the one making love to your gay lover, offer him stimulation before you get to penetration.
Step 4
Apply lubricant to your fingers. The anus is not self lubricating and needs to have an outside source of lubrication applied.
Step 5
Insert one finger into your lover's anus. The anus also does not stretch as readily as the vagina. You must loosen the muscles of the anus with your fingers.
Step 6
Add another finger. Once two fingers are easily worked in and out, add a third. Keep stretching your lover's anus until he is ready to be penetrated.
Step 7
Apply lubricant to your penis. The added lubricant will make the lovemaking more pleasurable for you both.
Step 8
Insert your penis into his anus. Do this slowly at first, as to not hurt him. You can either enter him from behind, or he can lay on his back with his legs propped up to give you access.
Step 9
Move your penis in and out of his anus at the pace you choose. For his added stimulation, rub his penis or testicles with your hand.
Step 10
Keep working until you both achieve an orgasm.
Step 11
Hold your lover when you are finished.

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